Ask White Feather #3
Anonymous asks: "How does one genuinely disengage from and release connections with other people?"
I am slowly coming to the realization that nothing can accomplish this. It cannot be done. After all, we are all one, right? We are all connected whether we like it or not. We cannot cut and separate one-ness--though we have been trying to for umpteen million years. It just cannot be done. What we can disengage from and release, however, is our reactions to these connections. The connections to all other humans is there and we cannot change that but we can change how we engage those connections. In this regard we have plenty of choice.
While we all have a connection to humankind at large, we also have a connection to every single other human. Most of those connections we have never engaged. After all, with 6+ billion people on the planet we simply do not have time to engage the connections with each and every one of them. The connections are still there, though. We just have not engaged them with our energy. Our connections with friends and family and lovers and enemies, however, we have fed with a great deal of energy usually through numerous lifetimes. Those connections are energized circuitries with a well established patterns of energy exchange. All the energy we put into these connections feeds storylines being played out over time. We can put in a certain emotional energy, for instance, into one of the energetic circuitries and that energy will travel throughout the matrix of the storylines, feed the storyline and keep it going, and then eventually came back at us.
When you are reading a storybook and you do not like the story, you can just close the book and stop reading. But we cannot do that with our established circuitries. We cannot even end them by dying because we will just be magnetized back into another life and further situations with those we have circuitries with. I think this is where the phrase, Karma is a bitch, comes from. But it is not as hopeless as it sounds. While we cannot get rid of the connection we have with every single other human and while we cannot turn off established circuitries, what we can do is transform those circuitries. We do that by changing the energy that we put into the circuitries. Normally we are feeding our various circuitries with emotional and mental energy. This kind of energy feeds the circuitries and keeps them going, looping and looping through storyline after storyline. While we cannot cut off the circuitries, we can stop feeding them emotional and mental energy and instead feed them with a very different kind of energy. You see, there is another kind of energy that, when fed into the circuitries, utterly transforms them and heals them and brings loving closure to the looping. The connection remains but the circuitry is cleaned out and purified.
That other kind of energy is called pure unconditional love (which, of course, is very different from emotional and mental love). So while we cannot disengage and release our selves from the connection, we can heal and transform any established circuitry that utilizes the connection. It may take some time for unconditional love to clean out and transform the entire circuitry, especially if the circuitry is long and convoluted, but eventually it will do its job. The thing to remember is to not fall back into a pattern of feeding the connection emotional and mental energy, thus re-energizing the established circuitry. A long, steady uninterrupted flow of unconditional energy will eventually heal and transform any circuitry it is projected into. It is the only thing that I have found that works.
While we all have a connection to humankind at large, we also have a connection to every single other human. Most of those connections we have never engaged. After all, with 6+ billion people on the planet we simply do not have time to engage the connections with each and every one of them. The connections are still there, though. We just have not engaged them with our energy. Our connections with friends and family and lovers and enemies, however, we have fed with a great deal of energy usually through numerous lifetimes. Those connections are energized circuitries with a well established patterns of energy exchange. All the energy we put into these connections feeds storylines being played out over time. We can put in a certain emotional energy, for instance, into one of the energetic circuitries and that energy will travel throughout the matrix of the storylines, feed the storyline and keep it going, and then eventually came back at us.
When you are reading a storybook and you do not like the story, you can just close the book and stop reading. But we cannot do that with our established circuitries. We cannot even end them by dying because we will just be magnetized back into another life and further situations with those we have circuitries with. I think this is where the phrase, Karma is a bitch, comes from. But it is not as hopeless as it sounds. While we cannot get rid of the connection we have with every single other human and while we cannot turn off established circuitries, what we can do is transform those circuitries. We do that by changing the energy that we put into the circuitries. Normally we are feeding our various circuitries with emotional and mental energy. This kind of energy feeds the circuitries and keeps them going, looping and looping through storyline after storyline. While we cannot cut off the circuitries, we can stop feeding them emotional and mental energy and instead feed them with a very different kind of energy. You see, there is another kind of energy that, when fed into the circuitries, utterly transforms them and heals them and brings loving closure to the looping. The connection remains but the circuitry is cleaned out and purified.
That other kind of energy is called pure unconditional love (which, of course, is very different from emotional and mental love). So while we cannot disengage and release our selves from the connection, we can heal and transform any established circuitry that utilizes the connection. It may take some time for unconditional love to clean out and transform the entire circuitry, especially if the circuitry is long and convoluted, but eventually it will do its job. The thing to remember is to not fall back into a pattern of feeding the connection emotional and mental energy, thus re-energizing the established circuitry. A long, steady uninterrupted flow of unconditional energy will eventually heal and transform any circuitry it is projected into. It is the only thing that I have found that works.
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